Your Future Awaits!
Them Sexy Years
What to do?
Honestly, all one has to do is read athol kay’s blog on a daily basis to comprehend the complicated degradations one must put themselves through to create a “natural and spontaneous” marriage. He seems like a good guy so why do I never hear about what wifey does for him: That makes me suspicious. If that doesn’t warn you off, nothing will.
[ed note & update: as of 27 Nov 2013, Kay announces his blog “sucks”]
You obviously need to hear Tom Leykis’ views on this subject. Silly males (still, even today) have bought into the Past Marriage Ideal. That model is inoperable today – it’s a trap. You and athol inadvertently describe it as work – drudge work of inordinate effort for the chance that your spouse “may” stick around.
“Hey kids! Game your wife, tippy-toe around her moods, work extra hard to get that all important sex (that she wisely rations), watch everything you say, cook her dinner and rub her feetsies! And you too, O 20-something, can join in our fun!”
Misery loves company.
We always hear of this Lifetime Channel stuff, where HE is the one to bring the roses, mow the lawn, make the money, take HER out to dindin – while she watches HBO’s GIRLS and microwaves him Spaghetti-O’s for dinner…WHY OH WHY OH WHY???
Because males are asked to make all the sacrifices, women, none. And, men don’t question it. Female affection and companionship exists IN ABUNDANCE OUTSIDE of marriage. Dozens of girls, as compared to one who’ll NEVER look any better than she does today. It’s what Game is for, dumbass.
You girls keep insisting that female affection and companionship is only exclusive to a man-made legal contract called “marriage” and that is pure fantasy. Your only answer is that “some men like” marriage. If so, then you therefore accept the fact that some men DON’T. And today, that’s MOST men.
The reason the issue has not come up (nor is ever likely to do so) is the belief systems of most Western males are totally brainwashed and internalized – the dogma, melded and fully integrated into their skulls. It’s that old adage: “there’s NO accounting for taste.” For instance, if the Noble Knights of The West want to convince themselves they’re happily satisfied putting on a Smiley Face 🙂 and grind away on a 40-year-old with stretch marks, bingo wings, cooking-0-phobia and a Secret Plan for a quickie divorce settlement, fine. Don’t get ambushed and predictably Vent Your Daily Outrage!® weepily on The Spearhead over a plan she concocted while looking up at the crack in the ceiling waiting for you to come. You’ve been warned, asshole – 100 times. Suffer. And PUH-LEEZE STFU. Whining is unbecoming to A Man – especially THOSE that loudly self-proclaim themselves as Men…while they beat on bongos in the Sweat Lodge.
So, at 45, it may seem like a small thing to see your third 21-year-old girlfriend awarded her college diploma – compared to all the risks and pitfalls of girlfriend 2.0, but until you experience it, you just can’t know the feelings of pride, accomplishment, and sexual satisfaction this brings to your life during the celebration later that night.
The Diaper & Delinquent Years
Don’t fall for that HBD jazz either about “passing on your precious bodily fluids – GENES!” By the time your grandkids emerge, only about 25% (max) of YOUR genes exist in progeny – outnumbered by 75% of strangers’ genes. Maybe, those strangers are even assholes. And even that paltry contribution of yours diminishes with each successive generation until almost extinct.
Plus, you actually have absolutely NO idea how your kids will turn out despite the Lifetime Channel Fantasy. None – just like Jeffrey Dahmer’s religious father had no idea of his blue-eyed, blond-haired boy’s culinary habits. I know plenty of kids with proper upbringing that aren’t worth a good goddamn – you do, too. Can you pick the LOTTO numbers for me today? IRL, plenty of cases exist where “good kids” wind up bad. All to the shock of their deluded parents.
Or, they could just shunt you off to a Nursing Home because you interfere with their Golf Saturday.
The Golden Years
Happy He Had Four Wives & Two Kids
70-year-old couples routinely get divorced today; now, she also takes grampa’s long-saved, hard-earned PENSION to boot. Basing a Sanctimonious Marriage on which lucky partner gets the hot potato of changing the adult diaper is a poor foundation for Everlastin’ Luv. Middle-age adult children don’t even show blood loyalty by taking care of their parents today. If inheritors of accrued wealth who shared a bloodline no longer do it, those linked by a paper contract are less dependable.
I wrote a Memorial Day tribute to an old veteran. It wasn’t applicable then – but it IS now – to include how HIS wife of 60 years suddenly announced to him one day, in their 80′s, she wanted a divorce so she could “find herself” sojourning over America in a Trans-Van…that he’d bought for them. She thought marriage was too “restricting” and took over half his money to blow on travel. It seems just because granny has gray hair and looks sweet, does NOT mean she doesn’t fall for the Feminist Drivel Propaganda. Now, her three daughters and umpteen grandkids hate her. She doesn’t seem to care about that, either. Tough old broad.
Love and Marriage MAY have been fine for the Greatest Generation where SHE stayed home, darned the socks, changed the kids, raised the kids, cooked ALL the meals, gave blowjobs without (much) complaint, nursed the ill – AND stayed faithful. OK, in that situation, I see why gramps still wanted to get frisky with granny after 40 years.
The Knights Credo: Mysrey Lovveth Companyie
The Do-Gooders have an incredible (and suspiciously sanctimonious) insistence that their self-imposed incarceration is better than grinding away on a succession of hot 24-year-olds because theirs has “love.”
[WTF is “love” anyway? You could answer that 30 years ago (maybe) but no longer today.]
Love – with today’s females? Who the Hell are these noble knights trying to bs – and WHY?
Better to be a Man. Have investments and a pension that take care of YOURSELF and release the delusion that a senior citizen rest home marriage will fare any better than the three Loving Totally Eternal Marriages you had – at even more youthful, mutually sexually-attractive points in your life…
You’ll learn you can’t teach stupid people to be smarter. (If you don’t learn that, you may be one of The Stupid.) You might attenuate a tiny fraction of their stupidity in the hopes they don’t harm YOU… but the only thing you can do is: Don’t Be Like Them